Lessons to Learn From Inspiring Story “Adjust To Life…….. ……..”

October 22nd, 2006 by hanzhaven

A man and his girlfriend were married. It was a large celebration. All of their friends and family came to see the lovely ceremony and to partake of the festivities and celebrations. A wonderful time was had by all.

The bride was gorgeous in her white wedding gown and the groom was very dashing in his black tuxedo. Everyone could tell that the love they had for each other was true.

A few months later, the wife comes to the husband with a proposal: "I read in a magazine, a while ago, about how we can strengthen our marriage." she offered.

"Each of us will write a list of the things that we find a bit annoying with the other person. Then, we can talk about how we can fix them together and make our lives happier together."

The husband agreed, so each of them went to a separate room in the house and thought of the things that annoyed them about the other. They thought about this question for the rest of the day and wrote down what they came up with.

The next morning, at the breakfast table, they decided that they would go over their lists. 

"I’ll start," offered the wife. She took out her list. It had many items on it enough to fill 3 pages, in fact. As she started reading the list of the little annoyances, she noticed that tears were starting to appear in her husbands eyes.

"What’s wrong?" she asked. "Nothing" the husband replied, "keep reading your lists."

The wife continued to read until she had read all three pages to her husband. She neatly placed her list on the table and folded her hands over top of it.

"Now, you read your list and then we’ll talk about the things on both of our lists." She said happily.

Quietly the husband stated, "I don’t have anything on my list. I think that you are perfect the way that you are. I don’t want you to change anything for me. You are lovely and wonderful and I wouldn’t want to try and change anything about you."

The wife, touched by his honesty and the depth of his love for her and his acceptance of her, turned her head and wept.

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In life, there are enough times when we are disappointed, depressed and annoyed. We don’t really have to go looking for them.

We have a wonderful world that is full of beauty, light and promise.

Why waste time in this world looking for the bad, disappointing or annoying when we can look around us, and see the wondrous things before us?

Lessons to Learn from This Message:
I believe that WE ARE HAPPIEST WHEN we see and praise the good and try our best to forget the bad.  Nobody’s perfect but we can find perfect ness in them to change the way we see them.

Hi

June 22nd, 2006 by hanzhaven

I’m back! yes! but i’m not going to post any! next time i will give you a BIG BLOG! ka blog!

To my friend!

March 15th, 2006 by hanzhaven

To whom it may concern:

Apparently this comment will be addressed to what i red from my friends experienced. A little while ago as i am reading comments and shoutouts in my friendster account paused for this very intriguing post in the bulletin which i red the story of a past love life of my friend name _________________________.

To all mga anak who is in my friendsters list you know whom i reffering to " the Kingkoy" gets! I’ll just put this as a reminder Mga anak to atleast know and be informed  how our friend really felt about their break up.

I really felt so sad about what happen to them, I remember the last time when we had our friends day like meeting in one place to name it "plaza" last fiesta here in our province. i really recall that time when he is telling his story about their relationship, wherein he is so happy and telling us his friends that he really loves the girl so much and trying to exagerate about it.

But for a while when he last came to visit and tell that he is going to graduate this coming march, and told me that they had this mis-understanding between her girlfriend and ended to separation. look how sad was that.

To make my letter short and i know that this is really boring to read!

I just want to give my friend a PUSH! What the heck is happening with you!

Wake up! brush your teeth and go to school ok! i’ll be there in your Graduation! anak!

Obviously everyone totally know who are you anak! hehehehehe! Pasencious kasi naawa naman ako! basta pag nagkita tayo txt kita! congrats!

Panibagong taon!

January 1st, 2006 by hanzhaven

Sumapit nanaman ang bagong taon, dumaan, lumipas, kumupas at natapos ang dating panahon….. parang kay bilis ang mga nangyari, nakaraan ng ating buhay ay parang kahapon lang na dimo akalain na bigla nalang lilipas at makakalimutan.

Ano nga ba ang Bagong Taon? ito ba ay bagong buhay, bagong style, new looks at new trends ng pananamit? o ang bagong taon na nangangahulugan na ang buhay ng tao ay parang taon din na lumilipas, nakakalimutan at napapalitan?

Akoy napapa-isip kong bakit may bagong taon at sinasabing bagong buhay? na kung aking maaalala nung mga nagdaang panahon ay ganun parin walang pinagbago este maslumala pa pala ang mga criminalidad at coruption. At ngayon ano naman kaya ang madadag-dag? Tao!Tao po? sana meron din kahit man lang konting katibayan na ang bagong taon e ang time para magbago, hindi lang sana siya salita at kagawian na ating ginagawa.

Napakahirap magsalita, ang pagbabago kasi ang pinakamahirap gawin, inaamin ko yun dahil isa ako sa nahihirapang magbago. pero sabi nga ng lolo ko "Madali ang magbago basta sa kagustuhan mo". " walang mahirap na ibinigay ang diyos na hindi kaya ng tao." kaya GISING! GISING! AKO! Gising!

Sa mga kaibigan ko, Minamahal ko at mga kakilala ko diyan!

Sana Suportahan niyo ko sa pagbabago na gusto kong gawin ngayong bagong taon, at sana magpatuloy na ito magpakailanman (MEL CHANGCO PO).

* I’m trying to stop my smoking habit.

" I’m willing to draw close to GODLY works.

* I’m Trying to become one of the most obedient daughter to my parents.

* and to continue the honest works and words.

SALAMAT PO SA SUPORTA AT PAGMAMAHAL!

the secret of love

October 29th, 2005 by hanzhaven

* The First Secret: The power of Love.

Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about ourselves and others. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help recognize him or her when you meet.
* The Second Secret: The power of Respect.

You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect ask yourself,
"What do I respect about myself? " To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself, "What do I respect about them?"
* The Third Secret: The power of Giving.

If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself, freely and
unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of you can take.
* The Fourth Secret: The power of Friendship.

To find true love you must first find a true friend. To love someone completely you must love them for who they are not what they look like. Friendship is the
soil through which love’s seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.
* The Fifth Secret: The power of Touch.

Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and
makes us more receptive to love. 
* The Sixth Secret: The power of Letting go.

If you love something, let it be free. Even in a loving relationship, people need their space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive
and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions.
* The Seventh Secret: The power of Communication.

To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know; that you love and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say, "I love you." Never let an opportunity pass to praise and acknowledge someone. Always leave someone you love with a loving word … it could be the last time you see them.
* The Eighth Secret: The power of Commitment.

If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile
relationship from a strong, loving one.
* The Ninth Secret: The power of Passion.

Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone. It comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm,  interest and excitement. The essence of love and happiness are the same, all we need to do is to live each day with passion.
* The Tenth Secret: The power of Trust.

You cannot love someone completely unless you trust them completely. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. Trust is essential in
all loving relationships. Trust yourself, trust others and trust the world. It is the foundation for LOVE.
When you worry and hurry through your day,
it is like an unopened gift - thrown away.
Life is not a race. Take it slower,
Hear the music before the song is over.

COLORS

September 26th, 2005 by hanzhaven

We could learn a lot from crayons:
some
are sharp, some are pretty,
some
are dull, some have weird names,
and
all are different colors;
but
they all have to learn to live in the same box. 

Not enough

September 24th, 2005 by hanzhaven
" It’s not enough to have a dream,
Unless you’re willing to pursue it.
It’s not enough to know what’s right,
Unless you’re strong enough to do it.
It’s not enough to learn the truth,
Unless you also learn to live it.
It’s not enough to reach for love,
Unless you care enough to give it."

Break up line!

September 5th, 2005 by hanzhaven

I just realized, I don’t want to be attached

I’m confused and I need some time out to find myself

"Maybe this is not the right time for us

"Di kita maalagaan ng tulad ng ineexpect mo. You deserve someone better.

That’s not me."

break up line

September 4th, 2005 by hanzhaven

Wala Lang tol

September 4th, 2005 by hanzhaven

parang ayoko na yata
nakakapagod k palang mahalin,

Kala mo cguro diko kaya kapag nawala ka….

lapit ka dito may bubulong ako….

"putang ina mo"

bakit nagta-tiyaga sa’yo
ang dami-dami kong reklamo…ohh
parang ayoko nang magsalita
parang ayoko na yata…

ang daming dapat sabihin
alam ko na kung pa’no gagawin
akala mo siguro na
hindi ko kaya

parang ayoko na yata,
ngunit wala naman akong magagawa
marahil sobrang alam mong di ko kayang mawala ka
swerte ka’t mahal kita, malas talaga…